[PUP] PUP: PPM spouse or partner training

[Dean Crothers]

Scott, et al.

Jennifer and I divide the helm duties, day and night, about 70% for me and
30% for her. We have been in this together since the start of our boating
life (16 years ago). Interests and abilities determine our rolls and duties
while aboard.

Jennifer could definitely turn back and pick me up if I were to fall
overboard. We have practiced this using a Life Sling, block and tackle, etc.

We also had a female captain come aboard and train Jennifer in maneuvering
and docking the boat. During that five-hour training session I was the deck
hand and I was expected to keep my opinions to myself. I did not train her
to dock the boat. Attempting that would have been a disaster!

With Jennifer at the helm, docking tends to be much easier because I am
bigger and stronger and more willing to run around the boat setting spring
lines and fenders. Also, on approaching the dock, strangers who want to help
are more likely to listen to directions from me than from her (I am sorry to
say).

Dean Crothers
M/V Emily B
50' DeFever LRC (single engine, wood hull, hydraulic-chain drive get-home
from genset to main shaft)
San Carlos, Sonora, Mexico